According to Vedic Astrology, it is said that pious events like marriage, childbirth, etc., should happen at the right time, so that additional problems are not faced due to the delays. The astrological combinations with certain planets might develop the mentality in a native, that they do not want to get married early, or at times till really late in life. This might also be due to certain planetary combinations, which will not let them find the perfect match. The malefic aspect and placement of the malefic Planets on the fifth, seventh, eighth, and twelfth house; will put you in the situation where you might face delays and hurdles in your marriage. The influences of planets will manifest through your family, relatives, career, or your own thoughts as well.
Finding a perfect match and getting married to him/her becomes tougher with time, whether you are a boy or a girl. You will ignore marriage proposals citing many reasons, like for example; you are busy with your career, or not prepared mentally to be in a relationship. All these excuses will give you more stress when you will find that you have done delayed your decision to get married.
The same problems will be faced by you too, if you are the parents and are worried about the marriage of your children. Because of their higher studies, they do not want to get married at an early age. Sometimes the reason for delayed marriage or hurdles in marriage come with a different scenario, when you want to marry someone who doesn’t belong to your community as that person will not get accepted from your family. This mostly happens in conservative communities in India, where people are very attached to their customs and culture. Career, study, finance, relatives, and family from different cultures, all these play a significant role in making marriages happen. Getting married early, delaying the decision to get married, or the acceptance of the family in cases like above, will not come easily, and all of these can be analyzed with your horoscope.
It so happens that at times even if everything takes place as per plan in your marriage, but after sometime the relationship with your spouse might be tensed, which might let you think that the same person whom you loved very much earlier, is not giving you his/her proper time and efforts now. The sustenance of married life will develop question mark within you and your partner as well. In this tough situation, the Upa-Pada and second house from the Upa-PadaLagana (Ascendant) comes into the picture. Upa-Pada Lagana is the zodiac sign where your twelfth house lord gets placed in your horoscope. All these astrological terminologies will give you an in-depth information on how to plan for a good married life.
Astrological Reasons for Delayed Marriage:
We are born in some zodiac sign and so we will have different roles as all of the zodiac signs are segregated into twelve houses. Based on the zodiac signs and houses in astrology, the Fifth house signifies your love life and the children from marriage, and the Seventh house will give you the company of your spouse, whereas the eighth and twelfth house play the role of sex in your life. A malefic aspect on this house will give hurdles in marriage. Mercury’s placement in the fifth house will make you stay away from sex life. Saturn if placed in the 7th house might divert your interest towards elder partners, which might often lead you to delay your marriage plans, as the age difference might be a hindrance in getting married on time.
Jupiter signifies the elders in your life. If you want to improve the significance of Jupiter in your life, which is also a significator of marriage, then respect your elders and help them in their work. Chant the Vedic mantra related to Jupiter to get rid of the problems of delay marriage.
Saturn and Jupiter are slow moving planets. If these planets are connected to the 7th house in a malefic way, then delay is possible because they would postpone giving results for marriage.
Venus signifies the Venusians quality in marriage, and wife in the horoscope. To have a Venusians quality of life, you need to improve your Venus. Venus will be manifested in your life as a female relative in your life. You can improve your Venus by helping the females in your family, and having a friendly relationship with them.
If Saturn is the reason for your delayed marriage then this signifies that you need to improve your relationship with the people, who are working under you like your cook, driver, or your garden. Helping them and having a good relationship with them, will pacify the negative result of Saturn, and delayed marriage problems will be vanished from life.
The shadow planets Rahu and Ketu signify the people such a sorphans, aged people, and widows. The most dangerous shadow planets are Rahu and Ketu, which can also give divorce, denial of marriage, separation from a spouse. To attain happiness and get rid of this malefic planet, be the kind human and help everyone without any expectations of gains.
Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvati signify the Planets Sun and Moon in the Vedic astrology. Worship Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvati together to strengthen your seventh house from the Sun and Moon in your Horoscope will help you in the marriage prospects.
Mercury signifies relationships and is also related to the young girls in your home and neigh bour hood. Offering them sweets, cosmetics, or clothes will improve your Mercury.
If you are in search of your life partner for a long time then Upa-PadaLagna would be very important for you, and fasts related to Upa-PadaLagna,would be very helpful for you. Keeping fast of the Upa-PadaLagna will give you an early marriage.
Chant Ganesha Atharvashirsha for the Retrograde planets in the seventh, twelfth, eighth house, if they are there in your horoscope. This will give relief from the effect of the retrograde planets and bless you with a perfectly blissful married life.
Perform the remedies related to the houses and planets which are giving hurdles in your life. With the help of Vedic Astrology, you can have a good and blissful marriage without any delay, and even stay happily married forever.