If your partner is a Virgo Woman:
Virgo is an earthy sign. Servitude, purity and selflessness are the keywords for Virgo woman. You are hardworking and caring in nature. You will never let go anything puzzling and will reach the depth of the matter until it is solved. You are careful so you will always be cautious to get involved with a wrong man. You will tread the ladder of love slowly and patiently till you establish your faith on your lover. This may make your lover to have to wait long for your decision. If he is serious then he will certainly wait for you. You will not like to waste your time for a light date or just for having experience or fun. Instead you will like to sit at home watching TV or reading a book. Others may think you as a less passionate or sometimes unromantic, but this is not the case. You better want to wait for the one who is right for you. You will test him You are calculative before you are into a relationship but when once you trust your lover, you will leave all your calculations behind and then your major focus is on your lover only. You want to be one man woman only. You will be so confident of your love that you will never feel jealous or possessive of him as you know that you have already tested for it earlier. Now he will be yours! You are full of good qualities but passion for perfection and to reform others – for their own good- may make them feel tortured or helpless. This may lead them to dislike you then. Avoid criticism as much as possible. You like sweet conversation but can slip and say something unpredictable and annoying which can be intolerable for your partner, which you can forget later on. You hate words wrapped in formal introductions. If someone has to say then he should be straightforward about it. Puzzled words and dual statements irritate you as the imperfection around.
When you both are together:
Both share the same ruler - Mercury. But Gemini is an airy sign whereas Virgo is earthy. Gemini is kiddish and Virgo is a grown up. In the beginning Gemini man is attracted to the intellect of Virgo and the relationship begins with long lasting plan. But with time, the restless & flirting nature of Gemini man does not go well with earthy Virgo woman. Jealousy and possessiveness may crop up in her mind. Her tying down spirit is not acceptable to free flowing Geminian spirit. The calculative Virgo woman must criticize her Geminian man. Though you both understand each other deeply but difference in behavior and perspectives towards life makes you both difficult to adjust with each other. Your personalities are totally different. Virgo woman easily gets tired with the pace of Gemini man and he would not like to wait for her very long. Her stagnancy may irritate Geminian versatility. She is very calculative and does not like to step in the pool if its depth is unknown to her whereas Geminians love to experiment and to probe the unknown things. They love adventure and imagination. Since these are some of the basic qualities of both which they differ on from each other and these are difficult to change. Therefore, many a times you both find it impossible to live in under the same roof.
Though both share the same ruler – the Mercury, but you both are never going to make a good match. For some even the first date is a disaster. Gemini is spontaneous whereas Virgo is a careful stepper. Virgos are hardworking, shy and serious, which is also quite different from social Geminian. If you both want to be with each other, then a lot of adjustments are to be made on both ends. For Geminians the variety should be sought within the limits and assure your Virgo lady with security and stability. On the other hand Virgo woman is suggested to be somewhat lenient with Gemini’s approach to friendships or little bit of flirting. The serious approach should be avoided as a too serious atmosphere may become heavy for Geminian jovial personality. Try to bring some liveliness in relationship. The most testing time is at social occasions when you both find each other different in approach to others. Gemini man may have wide variety of acquaintances which he greets wholeheartedly where as Virgo woman may get tired soon or may feel insecure as she is possessive and jealous too. Virgo’s aloofness will not be absorbed by Geminian’s personality. At home, difference in opinions - like holding the finances or raising up the children can also be one of the common issues which you both may differ on. Though you both try very hard to cop up with each other’s personality but will find it difficult to get along well for a longer period. If you like to adjust or realign according to his or her needs then it may distort the original personality within you. Therefore, it is suggested to give a second thought before taking a final decision.