Virgo is an earthy sign. Servitude, purity and selflessness are the keywords for Virgo woman. You are hard working and careful in nature. You will never let go of anything puzzling and will reach the depth of the matter until it is solved. You are careful so you will always be cautious to get involved with a wrong man. You will tread the ladder of love slowly and patiently till you establish your faith on your lover. This may make your lover have to wait long for your decision. If he is serious he will certainly wait for you. You will not like to waste your time for a light date or for just having experience or fun. Instead you will like to sit at home and watch TV or read a book. Others may think you as less passionate or sometimes unromantic, but this is not the case. You will better want to wait for the one who is right for you. You will test him. You are calculative before you are into a relationship but once you trust your lover, you will leave all your calculations behind and your major focus will be on your lover. You want to be a one man woman only. You will be so confident of your love that you will never feel jealousy or possessive of him as you know that you have already tested it earlier. Now he will be yours! You are full of good qualities but the passion for perfection and of reforming others – for their own good- may make them feel tortured or helpless. This may lead them to dislike you then. Avoid criticism as much as possible. You like sweet conversation but you can slip and say something unpredictable and annoying which can be intolerable to your partner. You hate words wrapped in the formal introductions. You prefer others to be straightforward. Puzzled words and dual statements irritate you as much as the imperfection around.
When you both are together:
Cancer is watery and cardinal whereas Virgo is Earthy and dual. She is practical and submissive. These qualities of Virgo woman attract your emotional heart. You are unknowingly magnetized by these qualities. Virgo woman has a natural quality to take care of home and family persons. She is sympathetic but on the other hand practical and calculative too. Your emotional and moodiness is complemented by her practical approach to life and that to with a soft touch on your side that you will hardly realize that your negative qualities are getting molded into the positive ones. She definitely takes care of one’s ego too. You will support her with your security and she will in turn provide you with the quality of love you always demand. She never forgets to praise and value your emotions. This relationship is supported by friendship, communication, and cooperation in creative self-expression. You tend to encourage one another and are apt to share pleasurable activities. This is a very positive placement of the Sun aspect for the romantic relationships. This combination can also make great friends and other close relationships and this strength will lend itself into a romantic relationship. Besides all these plus points there exist some differences in opinions too. Sometimes your Virgo partner may get frustrated by your dos and don’ts. She is social and likes to meet people whereas your family ties are strong. Your relatives are more important to you than your partner’s sociability and that may irritate her. Her critical nature may make you strung.
Cancer is cardinal and watery and Virgo is dual and earthy. Earth always draws a limit to the water body. It gives water the shape and supports it from the base - so does the Virgo woman for you. Everything goes well if you are in your limit and avoid being harsh to her. It is suggested to take her criticism in healthy manner; however, it is not easy for an emotional and highly strung Cancerian personality. Avoid sulking for days as it may make your domestic atmosphere droop down and that may upset your partner and hurt her feelings. Together you both can teach others their positive traits like you can support her by your emotional touch and she can carve you for perfection. Try to avoid petty quarrels. Ignore comments on little things. Or on one fine day make your partner understand that love is more important than any other thing in the world – the way you make her understand will surely bring little changes within her. But the habits of cleanliness and perfection die hard. Little adjustment on your part will make her feel high.
For Virgo woman, it is suggested to avoid criticizing your Cancer partner on little issues as it may hurt his emotions. It is advised to nurture his feelings and support him strongly when he is tensed. It is possible that he may lose his tongue and use harsh words but remember he is not in control when highly strung. During such times, it is suggested to be with him. Being a sixth sign of the natural zodiac you have natural ability to take care of a person. Nursing is your natural instinct. So you can beautifully handle your Cancer partner with love and care and you will see the emotional bonding go deeper and deeper.