It is a watery sign. Sensitive, shy, moody, sympathetic are the keywords for Cancerians. Highly emotional and sensitive in nature. You are moody and change your moods often and frequently. As you are highly emotional so you are highly aggressive too. Your uncontrollable temper and rage makes others difficult to stay in front or with you then. You don't want to take risks in life. You want to be secure and stable in your life. This makes you selective and cautious to choose about your partner. You want to surrender your emotions to the one who keeps it gently and take care of you. You don’t want to get hurt as you know when once hurt then it is difficult for you to come up again. Your approach to love is slow, cautious- to avoid any heartbreak. You will analyze your partner deeply before entering into relationship. But when once you are in love you will stick to your lover always. In the beginning you will by shy – as a true Cancerian, polite or legs may also tremble when he approaches towards you, but when once you are sure and secured about your love then you will hold him tight as a glue that sometimes your partner may get fed up. You have your own imagination of love life and sometimes unrealistic. You will like to walk down the street on full moon night with slow music. Work makes you feel jovial as it keeps you mentally busy and the next thing you cannot do without is love. You can adjust in any condition with your partner if he loves you dearly. The rest you will manage – to encourage him to make more money as the next security to your fears is finances. Love and money- both things are necessary for your survival. Love comes first and the next is money.
When you are both together:
Since it is a watery sign and Aries is fiery- just opposite to each other. Fire doesn’t get along well with water. With the Cancerian partner you will be impressed by her intellect, instinct and emotions. Her devotion will win your heart. A good caretaker and committed to home. It is not that enough what Aries man wants. Aries man will appreciate her dedication but soon will get fed up by her sticking to him. She will not let you go off for a little while. It is not that she is jealous but she is possessive. This can make Aries man bore as he loves to peep on other woman too. It is in his nature to appreciate beauty. This will create fear in Cancer woman as she is highly imaginative and the fear of letting her man go off will not help her to sleep. A Cancerian woman is fearful yet strong, though she looks like emotional weak or fragile. Don’t leave her in a problem—she will never forget this attitude and will not forgive you either. Her swinging moods can sometimes make you frustrated. It will be difficult for you to understand in her swinging moods. Then your short temper may make the things worse – as she is emotional – the things can become really mess! The things can become really out of control when her temper is out of control. It is one of her negative mood that when she will be extremely aggressive can become violent too and then for short tempered Aries may become astonish – Oh my God! She is more more aggressive than me! Vulgar and provoking language may increase the anger of Aries man too. It will be difficult for you to hold your patience for a longer time. And it will be difficult for you to adjust with her tactless and argumentative behaviour especially when she could not control it or care about it, and getting insensitive to other people’s feelings.
You will be impressed by her fragility and emotional behaviour and the most of all her devotion and love will melt you down. She is good hostess and home loving person. These qualities may attract you but could not go for a long. Her emotional swings and getting possessive would also be bearable but you could no stand upon her getting insensitive to other’s feelings and getting outrageous. This will add fuel into the fire. So avoid it and if you are already in then pamper her and stick to her always gently praising her showering all comforts and riches of the home. Then don’t try to loose your temper especially when she is shouting. Then also just listen and pacify her with love.